Friends...another hot and interesting topic.....infact any topic related to love makes s interesting....Whenever i discuss with my friends about love....and different love stories of people around me......i slowly realised few points which i thought of penning it down in the form of a blog.....i have already discussed these points with most of my friends and actually...most of them accepted my views 8-)
So what really makes a person to fall in love?????? As far as i have seen, most of them fall in love for the following major reasons....
a) First time a person talks closely to the opposite sex.....
We all have a manufacturing problem....God has intentionally created every one of us with this wonderful defect....As humans..we are bound to be attracted to the opposite sex becoz of the scientific phenomenon of Oestrogens and Androgens....which really keep the basic sexual charectiristics intact in both the female and males....Its becoz of this fact we are normally more inclined towards the opposite sex ....and feel more happy when we talk with them..or sometimes even in their mere presence.If u are contradicting this view, i am sure that u need to check a good Maathrubootham....
Have you ever wondered with a beautiful but simple fact....generally coeducation school guys do not fall in love so easily....its generally a Boys School student who falls in love easily......Its more because of a point that his mind fails to understand......There are few qualities which make a gal...like tender,caring,soft,expressive,emotional .....etc...These are some default qualities which should be present in a gal..(if she really is....) A boys school student would have grown up in an environment of boys....who are by default arrogant,inexpressive,less emotional,carefree most of the times....So when he suddenly sees a gal who really cares for him (that doesn't mean that his school friends dont care for him....they are just not expressing it....)and expresses that in a very soft and emotional way...he starts flying in the sky with a very strong feeling that "THERE IS REALLY SOMEBODY FOR HIM TO UNDERSTAND HIS WORRIES AND WHO CAN STAND BY HIM IN TOUGH TIMES"......He comes to a conclusion that only that gal (whom he has talked closely to) is so much caring etc etc... He fails to understand that every gal would be reacting to hi problems in the same way.....Thats the grave mistake he does....
b) Sense of Insecurity and loneliness
If we take our society, we can notice one point very clearly....Most of the parents....mom and dad ..both are employed......infact for the right reasons of making their kids' lives pretty comfortable and to ensure that the kids recieve every right thing at the right time....As the Mastercard ad says....There is one thing that money cant buy...ie the care and affection of their parents when it is mostly needed.....The present generation kids grow up in such a situation where they grow up with a very strong feeling of insecurity and loneliness in their minds....This strong feeling in their mind makes them search for another soul to share their happiness and worries ...When they find it ......they immediately get into a relationship.....this type of relationship is purely defined only based on the sex....if its a boy...they call him a very close/good friend...if its a gal....obviously they like to term the relationship in a diff way.....
c) Friendship and Love.....Cant a gal be a good friend???
This arguement is a never ending one ...starting from Kuch Kuch Hota hi to the recent films ....Still we are not able to come to a definite conclusion.....Gals can really be a good friend to you.....if and only if.....you are married or already you have a gal friend more beautiful than ur friend.......Infact a person who has really talked much to the gals......like me 8-)......can easily identify the difference between the friendship and love....Both the relationships are equally important...special...and unique in their own way....U can never draw a comparison between the both......but most of our friends easily jump to a conclusion when a gal talks to him as a good friend.....and atlast blames the gal for not accepting his proposal.....
Let me tell u one thing here....U should be really lucky if u get one of ur best friends as ur wife......becoz no one can understand u better than that gal....But again u should very consciously decide....and choose the right one from your list of friends who are gals.... :)
Guys..........all the above points are my personal opinions...and i dont call them facts....I have come to these conclusions purely based on my personal experiences and after seeing many of my class friends struggling with these problems............yet i want u to remember one thing always....." THERE IS ALWAYS A PERSON WHO LOVES U MORE THAN U KNOW"...
Keep Rocking.....and Do inform me when u get ur Best Better Half... 8-)
So what really makes a person to fall in love?????? As far as i have seen, most of them fall in love for the following major reasons....
a) First time a person talks closely to the opposite sex.....
We all have a manufacturing problem....God has intentionally created every one of us with this wonderful defect....As humans..we are bound to be attracted to the opposite sex becoz of the scientific phenomenon of Oestrogens and Androgens....which really keep the basic sexual charectiristics intact in both the female and males....Its becoz of this fact we are normally more inclined towards the opposite sex ....and feel more happy when we talk with them..or sometimes even in their mere presence.If u are contradicting this view, i am sure that u need to check a good Maathrubootham....
Have you ever wondered with a beautiful but simple fact....generally coeducation school guys do not fall in love so easily....its generally a Boys School student who falls in love easily......Its more because of a point that his mind fails to understand......There are few qualities which make a gal...like tender,caring,soft,expressive,emotional .....etc...These are some default qualities which should be present in a gal..(if she really is....) A boys school student would have grown up in an environment of boys....who are by default arrogant,inexpressive,less emotional,carefree most of the times....So when he suddenly sees a gal who really cares for him (that doesn't mean that his school friends dont care for him....they are just not expressing it....)and expresses that in a very soft and emotional way...he starts flying in the sky with a very strong feeling that "THERE IS REALLY SOMEBODY FOR HIM TO UNDERSTAND HIS WORRIES AND WHO CAN STAND BY HIM IN TOUGH TIMES"......He comes to a conclusion that only that gal (whom he has talked closely to) is so much caring etc etc... He fails to understand that every gal would be reacting to hi problems in the same way.....Thats the grave mistake he does....
b) Sense of Insecurity and loneliness
If we take our society, we can notice one point very clearly....Most of the parents....mom and dad ..both are employed......infact for the right reasons of making their kids' lives pretty comfortable and to ensure that the kids recieve every right thing at the right time....As the Mastercard ad says....There is one thing that money cant buy...ie the care and affection of their parents when it is mostly needed.....The present generation kids grow up in such a situation where they grow up with a very strong feeling of insecurity and loneliness in their minds....This strong feeling in their mind makes them search for another soul to share their happiness and worries ...When they find it ......they immediately get into a relationship.....this type of relationship is purely defined only based on the sex....if its a boy...they call him a very close/good friend...if its a gal....obviously they like to term the relationship in a diff way.....
c) Friendship and Love.....Cant a gal be a good friend???
This arguement is a never ending one ...starting from Kuch Kuch Hota hi to the recent films ....Still we are not able to come to a definite conclusion.....Gals can really be a good friend to you.....if and only if.....you are married or already you have a gal friend more beautiful than ur friend.......Infact a person who has really talked much to the gals......like me 8-)......can easily identify the difference between the friendship and love....Both the relationships are equally important...special...and unique in their own way....U can never draw a comparison between the both......but most of our friends easily jump to a conclusion when a gal talks to him as a good friend.....and atlast blames the gal for not accepting his proposal.....
Let me tell u one thing here....U should be really lucky if u get one of ur best friends as ur wife......becoz no one can understand u better than that gal....But again u should very consciously decide....and choose the right one from your list of friends who are gals.... :)
Guys..........all the above points are my personal opinions...and i dont call them facts....I have come to these conclusions purely based on my personal experiences and after seeing many of my class friends struggling with these problems............yet i want u to remember one thing always....." THERE IS ALWAYS A PERSON WHO LOVES U MORE THAN U KNOW"...
Keep Rocking.....and Do inform me when u get ur Best Better Half... 8-)
4 comments:
hey
nice thoughts..Well soetimes people get so blinded by their pursuits that they fail to realise people who satnd by them.Isnt it time you ponder upon this aspect..
once again, ram refutes based purely on the lack of statistical relevance.
u know very few ppl to generalize.
u dont know what goes through diff ppl's head as few tell the truth which again cannot be verified.
and moreover, u never consider ppl from diff class of society/religion/city etc.
@maha
mute spectators!
or ppl who r afraid :)
@Ram
i think you should be mature enough to appreciate good things even if they are expressed by your enemies!!!!
@maha,
i do appreciate what u say ;)
and laxmi will understand the statistical significance as he is a better manager than us (at least me). these words come from an experience which u ppl hav not et had, staying in an alien land
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